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Rad's avatar

kelly, this was so thoughtful. loved reading it, and loved that you sent it to your mom before publishing.

i just want to gently point out the problem with this kind of thinking: "My interest in politics waxes and wanes with how much I feel like women’s rights are being threatened." i think it's important for us to maintain an active interest in policy making and government even if we arent the ones directly impacted. im a feminist, but there's SO MUCH MORE at stake rn: the war in Gaza, the rights of immigrants, the lives of queer folks, the fate of puerto rico.

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My mother’s issue with Kamala is basically that she resents powerful women. She is jealous that they managed to do what she wanted to do but wasn’t able to because she made the decision to let my dad put his career first. I think she finds Kamala particularly challenging because my mom started her career as a prosecutor and would have loved to be attorney general and maybe even a senator. I think Kamala is proof that the decisions my mom made really impacted her career and reinforces her feelings of inadequacy and disappointment in herself. That said, my mom is phone banking for the Harris campaign today and it has everything to do with how staunchly pro choice she is and nothing to do with the candidate herself. If I so much as mention Kamala she starts off with some variation of “THAT woman doesn’t deserve . . .” followed by some deeply misogynistic take on why Kamala isn’t a good fit because she doesn’t have “a real family of her own” or slept with her boss. I’m glad Trump is who Harris is running against because I can see a world in which she would have voted for someone like George HW Bush or maybe even McCain. Even though she calls herself a democrat the conversations we have about politics are fraught. I love my mom, but I too will be so relieved when the election is over.

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