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drea ✨'s avatar

I think the only major difference was that we stopped arguing since we were no longer planning a wedding 😂 but really, I think that for me, what changed things were us moving in together (three years before we got married). Especially since it was a few months before a pandemic... going through that together really cemented everything. I was sure of him, he was sure of me - legally proclaiming it in front of friends and family was nice and so special but our day-to-day dynamic hasn’t changed at all. We were already pretty good at communication, including setting annual relationship goals and checking in about them! I would say post-marriage our biggest shifts have been managing a shared chore and mental load spreadsheet and a twice monthly budget meeting (on a scale of 1 to 10 how much is my type-A showing?!).

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Allison's avatar

I totally relate to the relief / extra free time you feel post wedding. I always say my favorite part of our wedding was eating breakfast the next day and realizing it was all over. 😂

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